From CFA to Affair
posted by janet @ 11:01 AM
Sorry I've been so silent but this girl has been going through some serious drama. Last time I told you how my CFA got married. Well, that wasn't the end of the story. For about a month I stayed working at the same place until I decided I couldn't handle it and moved somewhere else.
Last week, he called me and told me that he was having problems with his wife. He said that a wife is a formality and he still thinks about me. He told me that he was tired of fighting at home after a few months of marriage. He told me that his wife isn't as good as I am in bed. He asked if we could meet.....
His voice was so gentle and he had that sweet nervous laugh that always melts me and puts a chill in the pit of my stomach....
I don't want to post the rest of the details yet. I'm still trying to sort out how I'm feeling. At yoda's insistence, I'll start by continuing where the last post ended. John was married to a chic who worked in the same building! The tension was palpable. I'll post that story tomorrow.
Thanks for all the support guys.
15 Comments:
HALLO...
Well you do know the first rule has been breached you are liable for all and any emotional risks that may or may not occur. END OF.
But enyewe, dude sounds scrumtious in the sack... very had to decide. But some decisions are to tempting not to make.
don't get involved in someone else's mess.
CFA, Affair, fuck buddy.. call it whatever you want but a bootycall is a bootycall if thats all you are willing to settle for then all the best. otherwise find a man that respects you enough to not treat you like that
Wah wah wah
Drama for the mama...
Haki there's a Milo here dying of suspense for the detail...
And you should run for cover. Change names, town, job, numbers etc
That ka-situation will blow up in your face if you arent careful...
Gal, tell that no good wanksta to keep it moving. So now he is calling for pity sex? Tell him to man up and lay on that sword. He made his bed,so it's only fair that he lies in it, with his wife.
I have been told by many women that it is better to be the "second" wife than the first woman in a man's life. You are more likely to be doing all the exciting things with him. Moreover, he respects you since he has not yet tethered you in his boma and does not take you for granted.
Gosh... you guys have made me even more confused than I was before.... I know I'm supposed to think rationaly and do the right thing... But.... I don't know.. how I feel...
Kenyangal, kelitu do you guys honestly think he doesn't respect me ? I don't think of it as settling... I'm trying to fight for what I want...
Or maybe I'm just cheating myself... I don't know. Things have become slightly more crazy since last week.... but that's a story for later.
Once again, thanks for the advice.
Ditto, Kenyan gal, are you willing to settle for second fiddle to that guy?
as tempting as it seems. I know you end up saying..."just one for the road", whatever. it just aint worth it. The nerve of him!!!
Remember Kelly's video when the mathe tells her: God will never give you somebody else's man.
Me the thing that scares me it Karma. What goes around.... Plus ala, you can't see this man has already set a bad precedent?
Argh I don't feel like preaching and anyway, you's gonna do what you want anyway. Just be sure to take care of yourself. You can't be sure you're the only one he sees ertra-maritally. And you don't know nothing about his wife's bed habits.
Just be careful girl.
Janet, the guy was jump-off situation in which you are suppose to be hard & black, instead you turned soft & pink.
His character is much in question (to me) coz he apparently had a chick he was lying to when he was hitting the skins with you. What makes you think he will change when you 'get him' to yourself? If he wanted you that much, he would have dumped the other lale and married you or something...
Erm...this fellow is supposed to be a CFA isnt he? In which case we can then conclude you do not really care for his respect, or that he is using you because you will be doing the same, no?
However, when you start looking for things like respect, love honour and eventually committment -this is the wrong person for you and I suggest, you do not go there with this man if your feelings for him have risen to that level.
Lemme share something i read somewhere in a book
"..sometimes it is good to just walk off, the feeling will fade away and you will wonder what was the fuss in the first place. Rather than go through it only to get your heart broken all over again
agress with ms K - Karma is a BITCH!!
We are waiting for part 2!What happened?!!!!
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